Being handed a stack of court papers by a stranger on your doorstep is a jarring experience. Your stomach drops, your heart races, and a hundred questions flood in at once. What does this mean? Do I have to do something? How much time do I have? Am I in trouble?

Take a breath. Being served is the legal system's way of giving you fair notice that someone is asking a court to make a decision affecting you — a lawsuit, a divorce, a restraining order, or any number of other matters. The papers themselves are not a judgment. They are the start of a process, and you have rights every step of the way.

This guide walks you through exactly what happens after you are served, what deadlines apply, the very real consequences of ignoring the papers, and how to think clearly about your next move.

First: Stay Calm and Take the Papers

Whatever you do, do not refuse the documents or run away. In California, if a process server identifies you and you refuse to take the papers, they can lawfully drop them at your feet. This is called the “drop service” rule, and the service is still legally valid even if the papers end up on the porch instead of in your hand.

Refusing service does not stop the case. It just means you have papers you have not read — and a deadline that is running anyway. Read more about why this strategy fails in what happens if you avoid being served.

Read Everything — Carefully

The packet you were handed will typically include several documents. The most important ones to identify:

The Summons

This is the court's official notice that you are being sued or otherwise compelled to respond. It will be on an official Judicial Council form (SUM-100 for most civil cases) and will clearly state the name of the case, the court, the case number, and most critically — how long you have to respond.

The Complaint or Petition

This is the document filed by the other side explaining what they are asking the court to do and why. It lists the “causes of action” (the legal theories) and the “prayer for relief” (what they want — money, custody, an order, etc.). Read it word by word.

Any Court Orders

You may have been served with a temporary restraining order, an order to appear, or another court order that already has legal effect even before you respond. These usually have a hearing date attached. If you see “Order” or “TRO” on the document, treat it as urgent.

Notices and Schedules

Look for any notice of hearing, case management conference, or scheduling order. These contain dates you must put on your calendar immediately.

Even if some of the language is hard to follow, read everything at least once. You do not need to understand every legal term — you just need to know what is being asked and when.

Write Down the Date You Were Served

This is the single most important fact in your case right now. Your response deadline runs from the date you were served, not the date the lawsuit was filed. Write it down. Take a photo of the paperwork showing the date if there is any chance you might lose track.

For more on how the start date works, see our article on how much time you have to respond after being served.

The 30-Day Deadline in California

For most civil lawsuits in California, you have 30 calendar days from the date you were personally served to file a written response with the court. This is set by California Code of Civil Procedure section 412.20.

Important nuances:

Shorter Deadlines to Watch For

Not every case gives you 30 days. A few critical exceptions:

If you are unsure which deadline applies, treat it as urgent and consult an attorney right away.

Calendar It Today

Put the response deadline in your phone, on your wall calendar, and on a sticky note on your fridge. Missing this deadline is one of the most expensive mistakes a person can make in the legal system. There are no participation trophies for almost-on-time responses.

What Happens If You Do Nothing?

Ignoring the papers does not make the lawsuit go away. It guarantees you lose. Here is what unfolds when a defendant fails to respond:

Step 1: Entry of Default

After your 30 days expire, the plaintiff can file a Request for Entry of Default (form CIV-100). The clerk reviews the file, confirms the proof of service is in order, confirms no response has been filed, and enters your default. At this point you have lost your right to participate in the case.

Step 2: Default Judgment

Soon after, the plaintiff submits paperwork asking the court to enter a default judgment for the amount or relief they requested in the complaint. If everything is in order, the court signs the judgment. Now there is an enforceable order against you.

Step 3: Collection

A default judgment is enforceable like any other judgment. The plaintiff can:

And critically: a California civil judgment is enforceable for 10 years and can be renewed for another 10. You cannot wait it out.

Can a Default Judgment Be Undone?

Sometimes — but it is much harder than just responding on time in the first place.

Under California Code of Civil Procedure section 473, you can file a motion to set aside a default if you act within six months and can show the default resulted from your “mistake, inadvertence, surprise, or excusable neglect.” The court has discretion to grant relief, but it is not automatic. You will need to file a motion, attach a proposed response to the complaint, and convince a judge that you have a good reason.

If service was actually improper — you were never properly served — you can also move to quash service or set aside the judgment for lack of jurisdiction. But proving improper service against a registered process server's sworn proof of service is an uphill fight.

The lesson: respond on time. Cleaning up a default is expensive, uncertain, and slow.

How to File a Response

Your written response in a civil case is typically called an Answer (form PLD-050 for general civil, or specific forms for specialized matters). You can also file:

The Answer admits or denies each numbered paragraph of the complaint and asserts any affirmative defenses you may have. You will need to pay a filing fee (around $435 to $450 in most California civil cases as of 2026), or apply for a fee waiver if you cannot afford it.

You must also serve a copy of your filed response on the plaintiff or their attorney and file a proof of service with the court. For background on that document, see what a proof of service is.

Should You Hire an Attorney?

The honest answer is: almost always yes, if the stakes are meaningful. Lawsuits involve procedural rules that are easy to violate accidentally, and a single missed step can sink an otherwise winnable case.

You should strongly consider hiring an attorney when:

You may be able to handle simpler matters on your own — particularly small claims, which is designed for self-represented parties. The California Courts self-help center and the local court's family law facilitator can also offer free guidance.

Common Mistakes People Make After Being Served

Calling the Plaintiff

Resist the urge to call the person suing you to argue or negotiate. Anything you say can be used against you later. If there is going to be a conversation about settlement, it should go through attorneys or be carefully documented in writing.

Posting About It on Social Media

Do not vent on Facebook. Do not subtweet about your “crazy ex.” Do not post photos that contradict claims you might make later. Everything you put online can end up as an exhibit.

Destroying Evidence

Now is exactly the wrong moment to clean out your email, throw away receipts, or delete texts. Once you are on notice of a lawsuit, you have a legal duty to preserve evidence that might be relevant. Destroying it can lead to sanctions, adverse inferences at trial, and in extreme cases, criminal charges.

Ignoring Hearing Dates

If your packet includes a notice of hearing, you must appear, even if you have filed a response. Missing a court date can result in the matter being decided without you.

Assuming “They Cannot Make Me Do Anything”

Yes, they can. A civil judgment is enforced through wage garnishment, bank levies, and property liens — all without needing your cooperation. By the time most people realize how serious it is, the wages are already being taken.

Special Situations

You Were Served Divorce Papers

Divorce papers come with their own timelines and emotional weight. We cover this in more depth in you've been served divorce papers — what to do next, but in short: read everything, calendar the 30-day response deadline, do not sign anything without legal advice, and start gathering financial records.

You Were Served with a Restraining Order

If you have been served with a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO), you must comply with every term immediately, even if you disagree with the allegations. Violating a TRO is a criminal offense. The packet will include a notice of hearing — usually within 21 days — where you will have a chance to be heard.

You Were Served at Work

Being served at work feels especially embarrassing, but it is legal in California. Process servers can serve you anywhere they find you. Your employer cannot retaliate against you simply for being served. Read more in how process servers serve someone at work.

The Bottom Line

The worst thing you can do after being served is nothing. The best thing you can do is read the papers, calendar the deadline, and get legal advice fast. Most cases are won or lost in the procedural details — not in the courtroom dramatics you see on TV. Acting promptly preserves all of your options. Waiting forfeits them.

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